Dating You may feel that getting your ex girlfriend back is an impossible task. You may not realize that your courage and conviction can help you to get things back to where they were once before perhaps not as difficult as you think too. You can do this by following 3 important tips. First, dont act desperate. Regardless of what you see on television or read in books, acting desperate does not help you in getting your ex girlfriend back. In reality, it only drives your ex further and further emotionally away from you, they being glad they dumped you and your neediness. If your goal is to get back with your girlfriend, then take some time for yourself away from her to collect your thoughts and come up with a viable plan that will help you to achieve that goal. Second, identify the factors that caused your relationship to fail. By seeking out these factors, you can put every effort into working on the relationship and making it succeed where the relationship once failed. However, if it isnt addressed and you both decide to try again, the chances of the problem to resurface is likely. It is best to resolve any of these issues that are plaguing your relationship as soon as you can. Third, dont make promises you cant or dont intend to keep. Lying does nothing for the relationship or for your character. Work on the problem that caused your relationship to suffer, work on tip two suggests you do, dont do changes for the short term. When a change is made short term, those problems that once were will resurface. You want a long term solution that doesnt leave room for big problems later on down the road. Working on them now and keeping up those variations you have made will keep you from backsliding. By following the 3 tips above, you can work at getting your ex girlfriend back but it is a continuous work in progress. Never assume that your relationship is back on track if you dont spend time working on it during the split. About the Author: 相关的主题文章: